What is the main reason of quarrels of men and women.
That evening was totally spoiled, their flat became a battle field, a lot of offensive words were said, army of sharp phrases attacked with a great force. They both were sure that they were right, it was so difficult to make the first step for peace. He and She, back to back, anger to anger lied on one bed. The distance between them was like distance between two poles.
SHE:
She saw a strange door before her face, so usual but at the same time so mysterious. Something inside told her to open the door and She appeared inside huge dark endless corridor, which led to nowhere, but at the end of the corridor there was a tiny light. She plucked up her courage and made her first step (a lot of women are afraid of long dark empty corridors). She constantly was stumbling over different things: drill, toilet paper, socks, tattered books, notebooks, maps (a lot of maps), once She even stumbled over a tyre, cursed everything around. She has noticed that such chaos can be only in the man's head, at that moment she was thinking about Him.
At last She was close to the target, it was small switch. She switched on the light and petrified, She felt no fear, no desperation, no pain, just happiness. On the walls She saw her pictures good and funny ones. At that very moment She at least understood where She was standing, but the main thing was that she have understood that the main place here was Hers.
HE:
He saw a high bizarre gate. He opened it hesitating and saw in front entrance to a hedge labyrinth (not every man will find enough courage to step into a labyrinth, because he can’t be sure whether he will find way out). That labyrinth seemed to be as huge as the whole Universe!
Male skepticism and irony knocked on the door of his soul when he saw under his feet fresh magazines: Cosmopolitan, Vogue, Viva. The labyrinth was full of different shelves, cupboard, lockers etc. with different shoes, bags, accessories, belt, glasses and bottles. In some nooks he found piles of psychological, culinary and other books. Once he even stuck, stuck in heap of sweets, above which was the inscription “Diet”. He thought: "As if I've appeared in Her brains!!!" and continued his way.
Suddenly he came to secret nook of the labyrinth, where was a small box, He opened it and discovered there his own picture with the title “My Sweetheart”
They have awoken simultaneously, face to face, heart to heart, tear to tear.
It doesn’t matter that we are different, still we love each other.
We (second variant)
We are different poles but we live on the same earth, women and men shall coexist in one family and build their relationships on a mutual love and respect. They shall take into consideration each other opinion and learn how to adjust to each other.
The main goal of relationships and marriage is a peaceful mutual love between men and women.
Ukrainian women are known as first-class companions and life partners not only for men in Ukraine but for all men who contract marriage with them, because they come into customary mores. Typically the Ukrainian women are very friendly, charming, easy-going, can cook and form encouraging conditions for a peaceful life in marriage. It's a usual practice that a Ukrainian woman is liable for concordant relationships in family. The most important feature that brings perception of women in other countries is that Ukrainian ladies are more diligent, soft and can stand some things that the rest of ladies will never be courageous enough to act. Ukrainian women do all possible to achieve all that matters right away. You will never take notice of unfaithfulness because all Ukrainian women are very loving, realistic, devoted and caring to their caring family members. For many western men women from Ukraine seem extraordinary since they still desire a good family and nice children much more that a successful career. In fact they see harmonious marriage as the most great luck of life.
They are capable to succeed in earning money and concern themselves with the married union. Still being by origin really passionate, they are determined to stay slim, fit and attractive for their darlings and to be happy and joyful.
Secrets of relationships: The love and lie. What do Ukrainian women think about relationship man-woman.
The article about what they won't tell to each other.
When a man falls in love with a woman, just any woman in Ukraine or in America, he won't phone her at once. And even if a woman got the feeling, too, he will certainly not phone her. At once. And if he hadn’t phoned her, the woman will be suffering, while choosing whether to be friendly with him, in case if he phones her, or to shout at him for he hadn’t phoned her at once. So the relationships can start in a way like that.
1st phase.
A woman (W): most of her time she is sitting at home. What if he phones her? She scheckes if her mobile phone is in order, and takes it every half an hour to be convinced that there IS a tone there. Then she determines “the dead line”. He must show up on the third day maximum.
A man (M): The daily routine is quite usual. He is in a good mood, while he’s met quite nice and sexual damsel. Then he phones her at last, flirts with her and between this and then offers to meet. He doesn’t understand how important his first call is.
2nd phase.
W: The modern woman seems to have a right to start the relationships, but still, this right is a little bit questionable. So, the woman can, of course, phone to him, but only on the 2nd phase. In other way she start to pine for Him and becomes crazy. And even if she makes up her mind to phone him , she needs her friend’s support or ootherwise, some alchohol. Or both. So, she WILL phone him.
M: He'll forgeet at least once to phone her, breaking his word by that.
3rd phase.
W: She tells to her friends all the information about him and adds some fictional details to make the whole story more picturous. Then she may make a haircut, go on a diet and renew her wardrobe. She hates everything that distracts her thoughts about him.
M: "Oh, she is great. Good fanny, beautiful eyes." He phones her often, and smiles when his friends suggest that he might have some girl-friend. He tries not to think much about her. It is the phase, when both sides start to understand that they are in love. (well, men usually don’t use this phrase) While talking this phrase also may slip of the tongue.
W: She believes, that the man she has sex with and who tald her to be in love with her, is absolutely faithful. Just as he must be.
M: He doesn’t think about it at all.
W: Suggests that the fact of infatuation and faithfulness means that the relationships do have the future.
M: In these circumstances he has to think quickly: What is going on to be next?..
Week-ends
Once in the evening W hints that "she would like to go somewhere at the week-end". M agrees. Men, in fact, never disagree with something that has the beginning, continuation and the end.
W: Hurries to hairdresser's. Annihilates her hair making it similar to bikini. Shaving the legs, make up, diet, creams, lotions. Takes most of her best clothes. Giggling joyfully, discusses the future trip with her friends. Tells to everybody, that "He steals me for the week-end".
M: Thinks, by which highway he could reach the dacha as fast as possible.
Supper.
W: Wants to discuss the details of their first meeting. Constantly. She creates "the history of relationships". She underlines the difference of the uncertainty of those days and the situation that they have got now.
M: Pretends to see no difference. Still, he doesn't mind to listen to the stories, in which he is the main hero.
Thay have a night together.
Sometimes, after successful week-end, none of them wants to go to the single home, and so the idea rises to live some time together. But that is on condition that:
Ukrainian woman didn't say a word about "our future".
She wasn't chattering nonstop while the terrible holdup in the highway.
He doesn't need to get up early on monday to go for a work.
Common life.
W: If they decide to live in her flat, she immediately changes the text of her telephome answering machine, transforming it into a enthusiastic speech, including his name.
M: If they decide to live in his flat, resists any attempt to change the text of his telephome answering machine, muttering something about probability of business calls.
W: Is surprised by the fact he’s got so little clothes. She is horrored by this enormous thing in the big room.
M: Insists that the thing stays on it’s place. Horrored by a pack of her clothes. Dictates the rules about his table, his sterepsystem and his guitar.
W: Starts to understand that she can be herself with him. Tells to everybody that it is so great – to feels herself with him as at home.
M: Thinks: "Why hasn’t she put up that black sexual thing for so much long time?"
Fixing the achievements.
W: Ukrainian woman makes everything to be the integral part of his life. She goes to his work, gets acquainted with his colleages. Thinks over the reception of guests, common holidays.
M: Her man starts dimly realize that something is going on. He can't say what, but there is already the feeling of discomfort. Understands that he got in trap.
Confrontation.
W: Goes to the confrontation, having the most convincing prooves.
M: Makes a pase, sighs, then with a dull voice tells her about some woman, that has fallen for him long ago. Why hasn’t he told her about it? Because he is not interested in that one. Well, he didn’t let that woman know about their rupture, but that is because he hates harming anyone. He didn’t plan to meet with her, in fact, they just had a supper. It means nothing. "If I loved her, I wouldn’t be with you now".
Forcing the pressure.
Their relationships are trembling in the balance.
W: She has a poignant dilemma. Of course, the modern woman shouldn't make ultimatums. At first, it isn't proper, and at second, she can be left. So she decides to prove him, that the lfe would be even more wonderful if she was his wife. And behaves as if she already was.
M: His behaviour is hideous. His actions are more serious then those miserable attempts to hint her about another woman. He leaves home, in order to pick someone up. He has two questions: if she still can, and if he needs it at all.
He considers the right answers for these questions to be dependant on their future relationships.
Then they go to the beach, where the woman wears his T-Shirt and his hat. Man is annoyed. They have a quarrel.
Crisis.
M: The moment, when he desperately wants her to disappear secretly and without a scandal. She could leave her nail polish or something, which would evoke nostalgic recalls. And also it would help to calm down a new girl friend. She can also leave a good-bue note, like "I understand that it is better for us to part,. But I won't love anyone as I love you. If you miss me someday, you can call me." But he is quite apprehensive to tell her about all of that. So he prefers to wait for a scandal, when he could yell "Why are we still together, I don’t understand!!!"
W: Ukrainian woman has a built-in radar, that signal to her about the danger of rupture. She pretends that nothing special is going on.
Defence.
M: He can not marry her: He hasn’t reached the professional hight. He doesn’t want children. He is too rich and can meet many such girls in future.
He is to young for that.
He is too old for that.
He isn't fond of monogamous marriages.
He likes being single.
As you see there are a lot of reasons that Ukrainian woman can stay single after some time of close relationships with even a nice man.
And what about her ? If she refuses to marry him, that is just because "she doesn't love him". But still she thinks much time before telling him such words. And she may never say them if he would desparately want to marry her.
Rupture.
W: After it, she is annoyed that has prepared everything for a new one.
M: Why can the women not be like men a little bit??? Why are they demannding so much? Why are they so crazy?
After all, he meets a new damson – nice and sexual. She is independent and intelligent but single again. She is not interested in the box with his socks. Doesn't remind him something, doesn't ask him anything.
But later he unsuccessfully tries to drive off a fixed thought, that seems to be idiotic: "It seems to me she doesn't love me at all!"
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